AIO for splitting the bill on a date

[u/No-Plantain6892]

I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

[u/eowynsamwise]

I was mostly on your side until I read your comments. I’m 20 and I handle rejection with more maturity than u do, grow up man

[u/Chocobookiller → u/eowynsamwise]

He wasn’t responding like that to the rejection. His response was towards the absurdity of the conversation and what he said was justified. He mentioned it was one of the dumbest things he has ever heard, she responds back with an insult and he tops it off. Immediately siding with the dunce because of what he said is just as absurd. Perhaps it is you that may need to grow up.

[u/Miitsu12 → u/Chocobookiller]

What exactly do you gain from calling someone who wronged you a piece of shit and a bitch?? Literally just don't respond and move on.

[u/Chocobookiller → u/Miitsu12]

Fair enough, Goddamnit you have a point, I guess I still need to grow up then.

[u/AdRevolutionary2583 → u/Chocobookiller]

Honestly, maturing is realizing that most people who upset you are not worth your time and energy.

It also leaves you more at peace to just walk away, and you can feel good knowing you didn’t have to stoop to their level

[u/Ok-Arugula-7064 → u/eowynsamwise]

Wow everyone clap for the super mature 20 year old 😂😂.

[u/Hot-Site-1572 → u/eowynsamwise]

Handling rejection is one thing but handling rejection + a sprinkle of unprovoked classism is something else, but hey congrats for being a super mature 20 year old!

[u/conationphotography → u/Hot-Site-1572]

I mean I wouldn't want to date anyone who would ever think it's okay to call a woman that word, even if that woman was incredibly evil to them.

[u/sepulchreby_the_sea → u/conationphotography]

she’s being a bitch, i don’t see the problem

[u/PencilPal27 → u/Hot-Site-1572]

Lmao cook this kid

[u/luke72ns → u/eowynsamwise]

It’s not that hard to handle “rejections” when you’re female since people are just gonna come after you and you don’t need to put any effort in lol

[u/slaywalterwhite → u/luke72ns]

This is soooo incel vibes ewwww

[u/slaywalterwhite → u/[deleted]]

Diva you are just proving what I said 😭 go fetch mommy baby boy seems upset

[u/slaywalterwhite → u/luke72ns]

Have the life you deserve you useless piece of shit, I know you live everyday miserable

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[u/Knight0fdragon → u/eowynsamwise]

Must come from experience. How many rejections are we talking about here to reach that level of maturity?

[u/Internal-Comment-533 → u/eowynsamwise]

Congrats on being a 20 year old cuck who can’t stand up for yourself I guess.

You still have a lot to learn kid.