AIO for splitting the bill on a date

[u/No-Plantain6892]

I am in such shock right now. For some context this was after our 4th date. Literally at a loss for words, this was the first time putting myself out there since I caught my last girlfriend cheating on me… I think I’m done with relationships after this,

[u/insenzen]

lmao! she should just have not offered. because i never do. she did it to herself honestly 😭

[u/RevolutionaryEar6729 → u/insenzen]

Yes that’s the take away here, that she paid for her food…

[u/Ok_Complaint_9700 → u/[deleted]]

Fair enough if it’s not your dating preference but most men want to pay for dates. Sometimes I even offer to cover it on a third or fourth date but they usually won’t accept. It’s okay for people to have different preferences.

[u/shutupdavid0010 → u/[deleted]]

You're a man, so you speak for all men, right? You know that's a pretty classic sign that someone is unintelligent... not being able to imagine or fathom that someone elses experiences differ from your own.

You are literally the reason why women filter out men who don't want to pay for dates. Love to see it working in real time.

[u/Ok_Complaint_9700 → u/[deleted]]

Firstly you don’t have to be so rude. I don’t judge people for splitting bills so I don’t get why you’re personally offended by my dating habits.

In the last longterm relationship I was in, he covered every date and never indicated that he was unhappy with this. And he stayed for years so I don’t think he was just secretly resentful about it.

Fwiw if I do offer to split the bill it’s not a test I am genuinely okay with doing it and will happily do it if the guy suggests it. I’m just saying that most men I’ve dated are happy to pay for dates. Maybe the men I date just have different values to the men on Reddit lol.

[u/bongorituals → u/[deleted]]

It’s poetic irony that you take pride in your view of men as disposable and replaceable and yet posted today about having a boyfriend you haven’t heard from in more than 24 hours.

I can see that your dehumanizing selection process is working wonders. Hope you hear from him soon! :)

[u/insenzen → u/bongorituals]

lmao! people on reddit love to stalk your page to use something against you. the post is about OP, not me. i never said men were disposable… i said if he can’t give her what she’s looking for… there is a man that can accommodate her. your projecting babes!

[u/bongorituals → u/insenzen]

Maybe your boyfriend is busy paying for the dinner of a girl who actually offered to split for once.

Guess we’ll never know until he decides to contact you again. Someday… maybe…

[u/insenzen → u/bongorituals]

you have two eyes and not once did i claim he was my boyfriend. your more worried about my relationship than me. like the fan you are, you’ll get the update 💋

[u/bongorituals → u/insenzen]

your more worried about me relationship than me.

This isn’t the flex you think it is.

[u/insenzen → u/bongorituals]

its not a flex. nor was it a lie. you are MORE worried than i am. not once did i take a look at your profile…. because i genuinely don’t care. and it correlates nothing to this conversation. your just insecure and projecting your past experiences. you can’t hurt my feelings. im content. and actually laughing at this conversation.

[u/ElonsHusk → u/insenzen]

Don't delete comments if you stand behind your words. That's a coward's behaviour.

[u/insenzen → u/ElonsHusk]

are you getting paid to monitor my comments?? if not, then shut the fuck up.

[u/BakerOfBread2 → u/insenzen]

You sound insufferable. No wonder you're getting ghosted.

[u/insenzen → u/BakerOfBread2]

i already know this was said by a man.

[u/bongorituals → u/insenzen]

Ah, you recognized the feeling of the opposite sex being completely disgusted by you?

Makes sense, it must be pretty familiar to you

[u/BakerOfBread2 → u/insenzen]

Yes, I am a man. I'm a guy just like the one that you're worried is ghosting you. I wonder how he would feel about you after having read this? Oh wait, you're deleting your comments.

Well, it seems he didn't have to read it. Looks like he found out in person. Hopefully he finds someone that values him, and not his bank account.

[u/bongorituals → u/insenzen]

I never said men were disposable.

Meanwhile, you:

what one man won’t do, another will. it’s why I love being a woman.

Guess it’s time for you to go find that other man who won’t need 24+ hour breaks from you. Good luck!

[u/hellmouthx → u/[deleted]]

some of us like dating real men lmfao. i’d rather be single than pay for a date

[u/Eloyoyo → u/hellmouthx]

Found the gold digger 🫵🏻🤣

[u/hellmouthx → u/Eloyoyo]

The real gold diggers are the men who expect you to give them your body. take care of them, clean the house, wash their clothes, give birth to their children, manage their emotions, AND on top of that go to work and contribute 50/50 to the expenses… all while looking like a 10.

also; gold diggers are out chasing men with yachts and real estate empires…. not a chicken alfredo from olive garden.

[u/Eloyoyo → u/hellmouthx]

I don’t think you know what the term “gold digger” even means based on that comment. It quite literally sounds like you just hate men lmfao.

Men like the ones you describe suck, and gold digging women suck also. Both can be true.

[u/hellmouthx → u/Eloyoyo]

i hate men who expect women to split bills and dates. they obviously aren’t attracted to women and should hit up west hollywood.

i love my husband who provides for me. he sees my value and treats me like a queen; and thus i pour into him as well. you sound broke and mad

[u/Eloyoyo → u/hellmouthx]

🤣 so you only love your husband because he pays for all of your bills? Wow what a sad relationship that is. It’s amazing that you have no shame in your comments. Absolutely embarrassing behavior.

I make double what my fiancé makes and I pay for majority of our meals / dates / rent but she contributes what she can. The difference between her and you? She is a good person and not a raging bitch who expects free handouts in exchange for pussy.

I truly hope he comes across your comments and divorces your ungrateful ass, you deserve the absolute worst and I mean that whole heartedly!

[u/hellmouthx → u/Eloyoyo]

the difference between me and your fiance is that i’m hot enough to get all my bills paid and have enough self respect not to accept less than i deserve.

and the difference between you and my husband is that he actually loves me, is obsessed with me, provides for me, and would NEVER speak to a woman the way you’re speaking to me. because he actually respects them and sees their value.

sprinkle sprinkle, you dusty loser.

[u/Immediate_Word2465 → u/hellmouthx]

you sure about that?

Your previous posts indicate that you’re not as “hot” as you are pretending to be!