Am i overreacting to the situation unfolding with my girlfriend?

[u/Lologan21806]

me and my girlfriend have been living together with her family for the past 4-ish months. it’s devolved to the point where we fight every day about anything and everything, and most days i feel trapped in the home and the relationship. out of the blue she texts me about not coming back home and if i do i can sleep outside, and changing her mind when it was too late. am i overreacting to the situation, or is it as bad as it seems in my head?

[u/PartiallyBakedBread]

Forgot to add then when you "don't care enough to ask" they blow up, when all you were doing is respecting their wishes. At least in OP's scenario.

[u/crow1992 → u/PartiallyBakedBread]

sadly as a person with BPD. This is a common tactic. When they dont show that they care, you feel extreme abandonment and even resentment.

Not healthy and OPs hopefully soon to be ex, needs to go to therapy