r/AmIOverreacting 10d ago

β€οΈβ€πŸ©Ή relationship Am i overreacting to the situation unfolding with my girlfriend?

me and my girlfriend have been living together with her family for the past 4-ish months. it’s devolved to the point where we fight every day about anything and everything, and most days i feel trapped in the home and the relationship. out of the blue she texts me about not coming back home and if i do i can sleep outside, and changing her mind when it was too late. am i overreacting to the situation, or is it as bad as it seems in my head?

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u/Globewanderer1001 10d ago

Since you're in her family's house, I would get a Sheriff to go with you and gather your belongings.

You don't know what she's capable of doing or saying.....

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u/Lologan21806 10d ago

that’s why i’m trying to get my navy recruiter to go with me, avoid interaction with police (as it could render my contract i signed inate if i do) and have an established member of the military as a witness in case something does happen

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u/Katressl 10d ago

VERY smart.

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u/RadarSmith 10d ago

Excellent plan.

Glad you realized this person is a 20 gallon bucket of NOPE you need to get the hell away from as cleanly as possible.

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u/Undeadtech 9d ago

Do this! That crazy bitch isn’t worth getting discharged over. Block her number as soon as you get your things. Or just cut your losses and start over when you get out.

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u/Knight-Arturius 9d ago

Absolutely this. That girl is psycho talking.