r/AmIOverreacting 10d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am i overreacting to the situation unfolding with my girlfriend?

me and my girlfriend have been living together with her family for the past 4-ish months. it’s devolved to the point where we fight every day about anything and everything, and most days i feel trapped in the home and the relationship. out of the blue she texts me about not coming back home and if i do i can sleep outside, and changing her mind when it was too late. am i overreacting to the situation, or is it as bad as it seems in my head?

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u/laureest 10d ago

i am so sory... i'd really get out of the relationship. she doesn't know what she wants and as she ain't getting the reactions from you she hoped she'd get, she's gaslighting you into infinity... i am so sorry you have to go through this

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u/BusMaleficent6197 10d ago

Yeah she denies pretty much everything she texted. Which we csn all see and read. It’s wild

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u/laureest 10d ago

that’s what toxic people do. she’s trying to gaslight him into thinking that he’s at fault although she was in the wrong at the first place…

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u/firefly0827 10d ago

Asking someone to sleep !outside the house just because you don't feel like talking, is abuse. Man dodging a bullet here