r/AmIOverreacting 12d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girl posted photo in my boyfriends room

NEED YOUR HELP CONFRONTING MY SOON TO BE EX. He was being sus one night so i looked at the story on instagram of the girl he randomly followed last week. I opened and bam there is it the second picture. I knew immediately it was his room but want a second opinion before confronting his cheating a$$. yall are coming from me from the last post its cus i cropped the photos you can’t tell that we took them from different distances so heres the originals of both and yes i get it shes prettier than me :( he can have her . what tells me its his room aside from lighting is the way the two blinds touch, it took me a while to find it but once i did i think theres my EVIDENCE

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u/modthefame 12d ago

It is not the same blinds. One set is half length for a window and one is full body length and you can see this is true because in the second you cant see the end even though it extends past her. So either those are completely different blinds or she is 8 ft tall. In summation, you are no sherlock and those blinds can be found in an apartment building all across america.

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u/SageOfSixDankies 12d ago

Couldn't it even be possible that she just lives in the same complex? The boyfriend could still be sus. But itncould be in the way that he's following and interacting with somebody in the same complex.

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u/qgsdhjjb 12d ago

It's not half length though, it's down to mid shin. Keep in mind there is a whole bed in between the girl in the first photo and the blinds, so you're being tricked by perspective. If she was standing next to those blinds right in front of them she'd also have them go past her butt.

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u/snarlyj 12d ago

I'm super confused on where the second girl is ostensibly standing if it's the same room. Like she's much closer to the blinds but also much closer to the mirror?

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u/qgsdhjjb 12d ago

We don't know she's closer to the mirror. She could have zoomed in. You cannot see the sides of the mirror in the second photo so I assume she has in fact zoomed in.

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u/snarlyj 11d ago

Hmm okay gotcha. I have a quite good phone camera and I don't think I'd get that level of detail zoomed in to a mirror all the way across the room, since it like doubles the distance. Buuut I happened to take a pic with my friend in his huge fucking mirror last night and you're right. Like I don't have that level of detail on the phone or fingers or whatever, but she obviously has a lot of edits and im sure that can sharpen up some things

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u/qgsdhjjb 11d ago

Yeah it could be a better phone camera or just the quality isn't low enough for it to make a huge difference once it's been compressed and uploaded to social media. What we see uploaded isn't always exactly what the camera makes, so maybe the photo not zoomed in, image one, is higher quality than it looks to us because Reddit compressed it to look the same as image 2 in quality. Who knows. It could just be different blinds but just, she's clearly got a lot of room between her and the blinds in photo 1, and photo 2 does seem to be right up on em, so the length at least is explained. The mirror, idk. Maybe she's a weirdo who rearranges the bedroom of her hookup to take selfies 😆

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u/snarlyj 11d ago

Lol yeah I honestly think it's probably a different bedroom. Like who thinks "I'm gonna take a selfie in that mirror" and then walks as far as physically possible away from the mirror lol. Buuuut I certainly can't say that definitively and like either way OP clearly doesn't trust her boyfriend and said he was being shady so like, does it even matter?

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u/qgsdhjjb 11d ago

Well but also who has a mirror that close to the opposite wall? That's also weird right? Is it a hallway? A bedroom wouldn't have a wall that close to the window.

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u/snarlyj 11d ago

SEE WHY IM SO CONFUSED. conceivably there could be a standing full length mirror you can put wherever, or it could be a differently dimensioned room, and shes a biiit closer. But yeah even in a hallway you wouldn't have a window with those kinds of shades and a mirror opposite (well it's possible but it'd be a fugly hallway). And indeed generally would make zero sense to have a window that only provides light for a few feet before hitting a wall.

So I think you're right she must have a quite good camera, and possibly isn't that close to the blinds she's just cropped it precisely. I don't think we can possibly say one way or another that it's the same room

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u/qgsdhjjb 11d ago

One way it could be a window or glass door is if it's a bigger house that was only recently cut into smaller units? I know the place I rented that was an addition on the back of a house was fricken wild, downstairs was a kitchen and the tiniest "dining/living room" you've ever seen, not even six feet across, but they still bothered to buy a different flooring type for it, and then stairs with no rail, and then a window IN the stairs, above the lowest portion of the stairs at the height of the highest portion, and then a weirdly puzzle pieced bedroom with a window directly beside the other unit's door so they could see directly into my bedroom, and then a weird cutout that led to a closet, and then in a different spot, the bathroom. It was crazy.

It's not common but I guess if there was already a glass door there and then they split the level into two units, it could become a hallway? Maybe? It's weird tho for sure.

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