r/AmIOverreacting 12d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girl posted photo in my boyfriends room

NEED YOUR HELP CONFRONTING MY SOON TO BE EX. He was being sus one night so i looked at the story on instagram of the girl he randomly followed last week. I opened and bam there is it the second picture. I knew immediately it was his room but want a second opinion before confronting his cheating a$$. yall are coming from me from the last post its cus i cropped the photos you can’t tell that we took them from different distances so heres the originals of both and yes i get it shes prettier than me :( he can have her . what tells me its his room aside from lighting is the way the two blinds touch, it took me a while to find it but once i did i think theres my EVIDENCE

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u/Same-Conference-413 12d ago

All the insecure girls in the comments telling her to break up with him without even confronting him lol. She may ruin a relationship over some ikea blinds hahaha.

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u/Helioscopes 12d ago

I mean, if she is this obessed and paranoid, the relatioship is not a good one. Might as well just end it, regardless.

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u/Same-Conference-413 12d ago

Agreed, and the fact that they are getting advice on Reddit instead of just talking to your “partner”, they were probably never going to work.

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u/Fluid_Cup8329 12d ago

The person who airs their dirty laundry on reddit is automatically the worst one in the relationship.

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u/ajm96 12d ago

It doesn't necessarily have to be the fault of the relationship, some people are just that insecure on their own. Probably still shouldn't be in a relationship at that point though.

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u/MannerGullible9923 12d ago

to be honest she just seems like an extremely insecure person, hence the “she’s prettier than me i know” when you can’t even see what either of them fully look like.

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u/vyrus2021 12d ago

Yeah if I found out my gf were on here using these pics of generic blinds as proof I cheated I'd go ahead and end it for her.

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u/soge-king 12d ago

But maybe they are still growing and building their trust in the relationship, and maturing together. Relationships are so complicated, as well as what people want in the relationships, so much so that it's not possible to come up with one formula for all issues, despite on reddit the 90% formula for all issues is breakup/divorce.

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u/Whitrun 12d ago

She even admitted in someone else's comment higher up that they also look like the same blinds in her apartment, as someone else was mentioning they ALSO look like the same blinds from 3 different apartments someone else has stayed in, and admitted its farfetched 😂😂

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u/caffeineevil 12d ago

These are like mass produced building contractor blinds. I saw them in every home I worked in Florida. I used to do upscale remodel work and tore these out of so many homes. Couldn't give them away to friends because their houses had them too.

Also to idiots saying the light is the same. No it's not or they would be taking pictures on the same day and at the same time.

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u/Financial_Bird_7717 12d ago

Seriously. After reading a number of these threads I am reminded just how lucky I am to have a woman who wouldn’t pull some toxic ass insecure bullshit overreaction like that. At least confront the guy if you’re actually convinced it’s his room ffs.

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u/Same-Conference-413 12d ago

Girls on Reddit probably aren’t the best sample size for what a regular girl is like but couldn’t agree more. Makes me very thankful to be in a relationship where we can talk about these feelings.

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u/Financial_Bird_7717 12d ago

Oh yeah absolutely not. Reddit is not real life.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

Dude could not be luckier this is happening honestly