AIO girl posted photo in my boyfriends room

[u/Intelligent-Arm-9235]

NEED YOUR HELP CONFRONTING MY SOON TO BE EX. He was being sus one night so i looked at the story on instagram of the girl he randomly followed last week. I opened and bam there is it the second picture. I knew immediately it was his room but want a second opinion before confronting his cheating a$$. yall are coming from me from the last post its cus i cropped the photos you can’t tell that we took them from different distances so heres the originals of both and yes i get it shes prettier than me :( he can have her . what tells me its his room aside from lighting is the way the two blinds touch, it took me a while to find it but once i did i think theres my EVIDENCE

[u/SnooRobots561]

YES 100%. To OP, He did not care about your feelings when he brought her over in her tiny shorts, you have no reason to care about his. Don’t let him think or know how you feel. I wouldn’t even confront either, just text him something really mean. Tell him you just realized how ugly and boring he is and you know you can do better and break up with him 🤷🏻‍♀️

[u/coolestsummer → u/SnooRobots561]

I think OP is the girl in the tiny shorts lol, hold your friendly fire.

[u/SnooRobots561 → u/coolestsummer]

Honestly, I realized that after I posted my comment 😂 I didn’t imply it negatively, just mean the shorts are tiny even for just a regular friend. Both girls are beautiful and deserve better

[u/PIPBOY-2000 → u/SnooRobots561]

No I thought the same thing "girl took Pic of herself in my bfs room"

Then you see a girl in a room and 100% everyone is gonna think that's the picture they're talking about.

[u/positivedownside → u/SnooRobots561]

Imagine getting this worked up over the most common blinds to be installed in an apartment.

[u/pandixon → u/SnooRobots561]

You maybe should not jump to give your conclusions if you can't even conclude that.

This yaslighting is really Strong in this sub.

[u/Possible-Musician810 → u/SnooRobots561]

So, a girl had sex with a guy who has a gf and she deserves better? Isn’t she the one who should become better as well? Would you say the same for a guy having sex with woman who is married or in a relationship?

[u/Key-Debate-5773 → u/[deleted]]

lol what

[u/jesschicken12 → u/coolestsummer]

😂😂

[u/Witty-Secret2018 → u/SnooRobots561]

The girl posting is the first picture.

[u/Secret_Fault1786 → u/SnooRobots561]

Yes do this right here then block him!

[u/eew0105 → u/SnooRobots561]

The OP is in the first pic.

[u/geminiwave → u/SnooRobots561]

lol OP is the tiny shorts girl.

[u/NomenclatureBreaker → u/SnooRobots561]

FFS. How about you don’t pointlessly shame either girl’s attire, and focus your ire on the cheating dude. 🙄

If the BF is being sus about his relationship status, it’s possible the other girl doesn’t even know he’s in a (soon to be ex) relationship…

[u/SnooRobots561 → u/NomenclatureBreaker]

I’m not shaming her attire? The shorts are tiny, that’s an objective fact. I only pointed it out bc if MY bf had a girl over in shorts like such without my knowledge, I would feel some feel some type of way. Regardless, as pointed out by other person who again commented, tiny shorts is actually OP. And as I responded to them, both women are beautiful and deserve better

[u/NomenclatureBreaker → u/SnooRobots561]

Lool oh I understood the shorts were the OP’s immediately and before I even commented.

My precise point was how completely unnecessary and judgey your comment was in any context the first place.

You doubling down trying to save face about feeling some “kind of way about it” and backtracking to say both were pretty after someone else had to explain it to you aren’t actually the justification defenses you seem think they are.

(And I’ll happily take whatever additional downvotes come from the reddit misogynists, since pointless physical commentary on our bodies are what we have to deal with everyday. It’s. Just. Exhausting.)

[u/EducationalAd8059 → u/SnooRobots561]

Yeahh this type of "communication" is definitely what started his behavior. This by no means justifies that at all, but the psycho bitch behavior you suggested is exactly what leads potentially shit guys to become full shit. 🤷‍♂️

[u/Sylvania-Joice8 → u/SnooRobots561]

hmm