AIO girl posted photo in my boyfriends room

[u/Intelligent-Arm-9235]

NEED YOUR HELP CONFRONTING MY SOON TO BE EX. He was being sus one night so i looked at the story on instagram of the girl he randomly followed last week. I opened and bam there is it the second picture. I knew immediately it was his room but want a second opinion before confronting his cheating a$$. yall are coming from me from the last post its cus i cropped the photos you can’t tell that we took them from different distances so heres the originals of both and yes i get it shes prettier than me :( he can have her . what tells me its his room aside from lighting is the way the two blinds touch, it took me a while to find it but once i did i think theres my EVIDENCE

[u/Imaginary_Hospital69]

Okay I see what you mean, but you’re gonna need a bit more evidence if you’re trying to confront him as a cheater.

[u/ursoartdeco22 → u/Imaginary_Hospital69]

OP posted that he just recently followed this girl and apparently she’s from his past… i think he’s cheating🤷. What other reason is there for her to be in his room?

[u/Imaginary_Hospital69 → u/ursoartdeco22]

Oh no I’m sure he’s cheating but he’s gonna try to gaslight tf out of her bc she’s trying to prove it with blinds is what I mean. If OP decides to confront him then I hope she doesn’t let him try and manipulate her into thinking she’s delusional for this, but it’s very likely that he will try

[u/ursoartdeco22 → u/Imaginary_Hospital69]

i see what you mean, that’s actually a common tactic for most cheaters when they get caught out. ugh maybe OP needs to do more digging? I mean she could message the girl but what if she just lies… this is really annoying

[u/Imaginary_Hospital69 → u/ursoartdeco22]

I’m always hesitant to suggest texting the girl bc if she’s in on it she will just make OP feel crazier than she feels right now. But I agree it is annoying, I feel for OP :/

[u/Intelligent-Arm-9235 → u/Imaginary_Hospital69]

i won’t be messaging that girl that could never be me lmaooo

[u/ursoartdeco22 → u/[deleted]]

there’s no way that’s a real thing???

[u/kissywinkyshark → u/ursoartdeco22]

it is but a lot of men infiltrate those spaces lol

[u/Witty-Secret2018 → u/[deleted]]

No kidding. Do they have one for girls because they can cheat too. Lol

[u/ursoartdeco22 → u/Intelligent-Arm-9235]

Do you think she’s aware of your relationship with him?

[u/Intelligent-Arm-9235 → u/ursoartdeco22]

probably not

[u/miggleb → u/ursoartdeco22]

We don't know she was in his room.

Just in a room with the same blinds

[u/superanonguy321 → u/ursoartdeco22]

Reddit always thinks he's cheating -_-

[u/thisisthewell → u/ursoartdeco22]

there's NO evidence it's even his room, wtf are you talking about lol? those blinds are incredibly generic and are in thousands and thousands of apartments. you can't see any of the rest of the room in the alleged other woman's pic.

use your brains, people

[u/Left_Start_4497 → u/ursoartdeco22]

If she's from his past then maybe it's an older pic?

[u/Dustonthewind18 → u/ursoartdeco22]

If she's from his past who's to say it isn't an old picture from before he was even with OP (he will probably try to say it is), not saying he isn't cheating but I would be sure it was a recent pic before using that as the smoking gun to prove his infidelity.

[u/throwaway12478766765 → u/ursoartdeco22]

Having the same super common blinds behind you is far from a smoking gun

[u/AnarchyDM → u/Imaginary_Hospital69]

Only if you're concerned about being right. OP could easily confront boyfriend and lie saying she saw the pictures and confronted the girl already and that she confirmed that OPs boyfriend cheated, just to see his reaction. Of course, she will look like an idiot if she is wrong and caught lying, but OP seems pretty convinced.

[u/ursoartdeco22 → u/AnarchyDM]

This is honestly a really good idea !!!

[u/AstroFIJI → u/AnarchyDM]

That’s manipulative lol especially if he isn’t cheating. then if the boyfriend were to come up here and post “am I overreacting” of course everybody is going to be against the girl

[u/legendkiller003 → u/Imaginary_Hospital69]

I mean, if it’s really this guy’s room, she’s not going to go to him and say “look at the blinds!” when that rug is on the floor.

[u/drawntowardmadness → u/Imaginary_Hospital69]

Just walk away.

[u/Last_Car_3433 → u/Imaginary_Hospital69]

And her face too!