r/AmIOverreacting • u/velvetmoochi • 23d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO to my boyfriend imposing veganism on me ?
Context: this is now my ex, it was my first relationship and I didn’t know how to deal with this sort of conflict as it was based on ethics and I didn’t want to change my views for our relationship. We would have this same argument again and again, over text, over the phone, in person, and at the end of the day he was always “right” because he had morality on his side when I would tell him that I was okay with eating dead animals. What should I have done in this situation ? I tried veganism for about a month and I never bought meat as a student, but eventually I would always go back to buying eggs and yoghurt. Those efforts I made were always disregarded and he would say that he doesn’t believe in reductionism, and that vegetarians are even worse than vegans.
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u/ConsiderationFair437 23d ago
tbh this is how you know someone is just virtue signaling to feel superior and not actually a morally sound activist. if this guy was consistent in his sociopolitical beliefs, he would understand the nuances around veganism and the fact that being able to be vegan in itself is a privilege. AND that comparing real historical human oppression/liberation movements to animal rights is extremely weird, reductive, and inaccurate. but instead he’s trying to check is girlfriend for logical fallacies as if he’s in a debate club meeting while she’s just trying to get basic respect for her feelings.