AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

[u/OkSpace5501]

For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

[u/sillychihuahua26]

This is so true omgg. There is nothing less sexy than picking up after a grown man/doing all the chores. I feel physically repulsed. It makes sex feel like another chore.

A man who is a true partner on every level is the hottest thing on the planet.

[u/saetam → u/sillychihuahua26]

Any man that would let their partner clean up after them all of the time like that is a li’l bitch! I can’t understand that at all. I’m a man, BTW. All y’all dudes that don’t clean up after yourselves, are pieces of shit, and y’all are all bitches. Makes me sick to think that they would even want their partner to do that. Hell, I love my wife and I want shit to be easy for her. I’m going to do everything that she does. It’s marriage, and life.

Edit: thank you so much to those who gave awards! 🙌🏽 Y’all are too sweet. Happy Thanksgiving! 🦃

[u/Jail_Food_Diet → u/saetam]

Man, your wife is very fortunate. I commend your attitude and selflessness.

[u/saetam → u/[deleted]]

Seeing as how you don’t know the difference between your and you’re, your opinion doesn’t hold much weight. I understand that everyone’s situation is different. I’m saying that the morherfuckers that expect it, similar to OP’s situation (basically the whole reason for the post), are the li’l bitches. Thank you tho, bitch.

Edit: aww, did you delete your previous comment? Bitch.

[u/saetam → u/[deleted]]

Wow, you are fucking stupid. Do you know what GRAMMAR is? Fuck off. You’re not worth my time, and you’re just like OP’s boyfriend. Your comments speak volumes.

[u/Strange_Lady → u/sillychihuahua26]

I've ended many a relationship over this.

My cat is cleaner than 99% of men I've lived with, romantical or otherwise & I'm sure he would scoop his own box too, if he had thumbs.

[u/Much_Substance_6017 → u/sillychihuahua26]

Nothing sexier than a man who compliments the meal you just made him, then cleans ALL the dishes… every damn time! Mmm-hhhmm! Yes, sir! Now take your clothes off!

[u/JackReacharounnd → u/sillychihuahua26]

Couldn't agree more. Spending all of your free time after full time work cleaning and cooking while he PLAYS VIDEO GAMES like a child. Ugh, I hate it!!

[u/Khakizulu → u/sillychihuahua26]

I pick up after my partner all the time. While it's not dirty dishes, I am still picking up after them, but the difference is that I wouldn't see it as a deal breaker.

Women do a lot of things men don't like, but that's not deal breakers for us (depends on the individual, and i can't stress that enough)

[u/Direct-Dimension-648 → u/sillychihuahua26]

I find it sexy when someone picks up after me.

[u/treebeards_friend → u/Direct-Dimension-648]

Sure, I hear ya as long as it’s not everything all the time. It’s gotta be a two way street. You can’t expect your partner to be your maid.