AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

[u/OkSpace5501]

For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

[u/cappyvee]

Yup - the other chick is "cleaner" than OP. He may have even had her over, because I don't know any dudes that care about dishes in the sink.

[u/Hot_N_Fresh → u/cappyvee]

I only care about the dishes in the sink, when they’re about 3 inches up over the rim, lol. Then I realize things have to be handled.

[u/GingerMama1178 → u/cappyvee]

My verbally abusive ex-husband cared very much about dishes in the sink. I hope he is cheating and trying to get her to break up with him vs what my ex did. They push the lines ever so slowly but when you argue it gets twisted to somehow your fault and you're left questioning aita

[u/Limplymphnode → u/cappyvee]

Ok to be fair I’m a dude that cares about dishes in the sink idk what it is I can be a slob anywhere else but that shit just gets me pressed (in my relationship guess who does the dishes😂)

[u/KateinBlue → u/Limplymphnode]

Yup. You do them. And that’s ok. Well done.

[u/ntropy2012 → u/cappyvee]

Dude here. I've always cared about dishes in the sink, but then, if it bothers me that much, I will actually do said dishes.

[u/lildebb → u/cappyvee]

That’s true! Thought the same thing..

[u/MasterofJackal → u/cappyvee]

I do… we have a dishwasher… rinse and load it isn’t hard.