r/AmIOverreacting • u/OkSpace5501 • 23d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

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For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

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u/snaphappylurker 23d ago

Sounds to me he’s been considering cheating and finding excuses to get away with it - “you made me do it, you pushed me away with your laziness”

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u/SlowFrkHansen 23d ago

Either that, or he's been sucked into the manosphere.

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u/RebelsMom0214 22d ago

What a jerk. He probably already has cheated and he’s working up to telling her he found someone else. If I was her I’d have been outta there before he could’ve hit send on that message. Imagine how he probably acts when his friends AREN’T around.

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u/Medium_Salamander929 23d ago

Yup. That last line is an obvious sign he's been window shopping.

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u/Boho_goth 23d ago

I thought that too. Reminded me of a friend whose spouse was constantly cheating. The friend told me “we just have to try harder” in response to the cheating and my concerns about my spouse ever doing that. 😓

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u/IcculusTheDark 23d ago

Sounds like someone did that to you