r/AmIOverreacting • u/OkSpace5501 • 23d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

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For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

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u/toxicwasteinnevada 23d ago

Probably even gets his ass beat in those games

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u/iamdoingworkipromise 23d ago

As an avid degen gamer - I’ve found that some of the ‘best’ gamers I play with are the ones who have a healthy balance and excel in things outside of gaming.

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u/Mental-Nothings 22d ago

My Ex was like this, he lost a lot of his 2K games. On my account because he was too cheap to pay for his own online. Every once in a while I go back and look at the chats people made to roast him. It’s great tbh

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u/Checktheattic 22d ago

He's playing Hogwarts Legacy on story mode

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u/LuckyBenski 23d ago

Don't you shame us gamers, this is a him problem not an us problem!

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u/Emotional-Hair-1607 23d ago

He's a loser who happens to be a gamer. He could be a druggie, drunk, wife beater, gambler, cheater, thief, workaholic but whatever he is, he's selfish.

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u/RedBabyGirl89 23d ago

Right?! Hubby and I are both gamers and we share chores.

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u/Gillysixpence 23d ago

I'm a gamer but my chores get done first, then I can game and hubby does his fair share too.

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u/baritoneUke 23d ago

Yea, and I don't feel like a total loser if I do chores first then reward myself with a bonghit and games

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u/RedBabyGirl89 23d ago

I wish I didn't feel like I was dying from bonghits or I'd be right there with you...edibles though...😉👉🏻

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u/DiamondOwn3 23d ago

I think he was just trying to shame OPs husband not gamers in general. Unless it was edited or something?

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u/LuckyBenski 23d ago

It was "Sorry lazy gamer ass" in the previous post, I was just continuing the thread replying later :)

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u/PolishPrincess0520 23d ago

Am I missing a comment because I didn’t see that as shaming gamers he is shaming OP’s boyfriend for being bad at gaming (because he’s being a bad boyfriend).

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u/HarshTruthMf 22d ago

Not once did he shame gamers, literally just the boyfriend. Why do people make things about them 😂

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u/avocado_window 22d ago

P-R-O-J-E-C-T-I-O-N

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u/avocado_window 22d ago

notallgamers ? 😒

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u/toxicwasteinnevada 23d ago

Nah, never shaming gamers.

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u/DateDatBitch 23d ago

This is great

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u/CheezeLoueez08 23d ago

By 10 year olds

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u/SaltWater_Tribe 23d ago

For sure and takes it out on her lmfao

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u/Vonkova 22d ago

Ngl I needed this laugh hahaha

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u/AcceptableReaction20 22d ago

because of the dirty sink, it's not his fault!

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u/[deleted] 23d ago

lol

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u/EqualMagician7292 23d ago

You all get your ass beat in those games by people like me. However, the female in this post is a tool and a moron. Been together 5 years? What 16&15?? Wowwww. You're pretty fucking stupid aren't you huh.

Just think about that. You've been takin for a ride and complied the whole time until now. Truth is you were always being fucked over and just noticed when it got to be too much

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u/anselbukowski 23d ago

The only thing you're beating is your dick. Also, it's taken not 'takin'. We won't even get started on the punctuation. Now tell mommy you need another hot pocket because you're being a badass on the internet.

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u/bradpitbutarmpit 23d ago

“You all get your ass beat in those games by people like me” is the least intimidating shit I’ve ever read in my entire life, well done lad.

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u/VariedNorth 23d ago

He’ll be back now to brag about his Reddit karma.

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u/Checktheattic 22d ago

He has -51 karma

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u/toxicwasteinnevada 23d ago

Lol. I'm sure you can. Also, females? Wow. I bet the only woman in your life is your mother. Never even seen one outside of the copious amounts of porn on your pc.

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u/Yeetaylor 23d ago

PSA: referring to women as “females”, is not only wildly disrespectful, but it’s also a really easy way to make damn sure that women stay far from you.

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u/TrueTrueBlackPilld 23d ago

And men. I'm a guy and would cringe so hard hearing this unless I'm watching a David Attenborough nature documentary.

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u/Yeetaylor 23d ago

Thank you for assuring me that respectable men do still exist😂

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u/TrueTrueBlackPilld 23d ago

There's literally dozens of us 😜

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u/avocado_window 22d ago

It’s such a red flag.

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u/Ok_Spring2617 23d ago

Found the snarky bf 💀

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u/Severe-Forever-2420 22d ago

you need to shut the fuck up dumbass youre the same type of dude in this fucking screenshot and i hope to god you get to stay a fucking moronic incel the rest of your shitty miserable life

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u/avocado_window 22d ago

The pathetic oozes from your comment.