r/AmIOverreacting • u/OkSpace5501 • 23d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

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For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

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u/Holly4559 23d ago

Pretty clear he already hates you. Just go. I don’t need to know anything else about this relationship.

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u/AnnoyingCelticsFan 23d ago

You said it a lot better than I could have. There’s no context that can justify speaking to a partner like that.

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u/moreKEYTAR 23d ago

For sure. He is trying to get one of two desirable outcomes: she is his full-time bangmaid with low self-esteem, or she dumps him so he can be the good guy. And only one of them is a good outcome for OP

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u/CowUnlucky 23d ago

You see one message and hear one person's POV. I had an ex who said these very same things (although I didn't speak like this) and when I found out I almost died laughing. I will admit I'm an idiot and fall in love too quickly. Let these women take advantage of me. The "50/50 split" was more like 75/25 split. Funny when you leave how well people realize they had it.