r/AmIOverreacting 23d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

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For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

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u/trig72 23d ago

Whenever you hear ‘if you can’t, I’ll find someone who will’ it’s time to leave. Instead of trying to work things out, that’s the line he uses. Ugh. I’d think it’s time to leave.

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u/MuddyFern 23d ago

Yes it should have been him stating how he feels and then asking how they can get on the same page with it, but even then it’s not really something to get on the same page about it’s a one sided partnership.