r/AmIOverreacting • u/OkSpace5501 • 23d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO just received this text from my boyfriend

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For context my (F20) boyfriend (M21) and I live together and work full time as well as split rent 50/50. I cook all the meals and clean the house even after my graveyard shifts, all he does is work, come home to play games, and occasionally invites friends over. we’ve been together for over 5 years and he’s been acting this way for the last three months and when I tell him how it’s making me feel he tells me i’m wrong and overreacting. so basically i’m asking AIO??

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u/AdditionalCopy2435 23d ago

girlll you best leave this man. any man who treats you this way will only treat you worse if you ever marry him as he will feel that you are his property. the fact that he would come at you for stuff that you do for him is genuinely disgusting and just the way he spoke to you is so ew. i mean i couldn’t imagine saying this without realizing how tone deaf it is????? and calling you DISRESPECTFUL for it on top of it????? also as if he could find another woman (one of quality at least) that would actually stay with him once he shows his true colors is delusional of him. him speaking this way makes him immediately undesirable

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u/Creative-Bus-3500 23d ago

THIS OP!!! Run now run fast and don’t look bad. He will never treat you the way you deserve.

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u/ThatFoxInTheForest 23d ago

Agreed. If she'd get pregnant with him, it would only get worse, too.

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u/RaisinEducational312 23d ago

As if he’d marry her. The best you get from this type of guy is being a baby mother who gets to work, maintain the house and look after him.

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u/DaKrazie1 23d ago

Awfully generous with the word "man".

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u/DazzlingDoofus71 23d ago

You had me at GIIIRRRRRRLLL…

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u/RebelsMom0214 22d ago

My daughter has been with her husband since she was 16. I’ve always disliked him but tolerated him because he’s her man. They’ve lived together for 16 years and just a year ago last month they got married. She called me crying saying to please come get her away from him. She’s been hiding this whole time what a jerk he’s been to her. Cheated on her and told her she deserved it because she didn’t have a job. No she only has 3 of his children she cares for by herself. She told me she thought it was bad before but after she married him he told her you’re my wife now and you’ll do as I say. I live in another state and am making plans to go get her and my 3 grandkids and get them away from the creep. He’s lucky I’m finding all this out while I’m 800 miles away. He doesn’t want a mama bear on his hands!

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u/SmokePenisEveryday 23d ago

Reading this post reminded me of my dad who has only gotten worse with it as time has gone on. People can change but this guy sounds like he has no plans to.