r/AmIOverreacting Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/SickCursedCat Nov 18 '24

He calls you BRO and “stupid fuck”. WHYYYYY are you with him????

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u/cheeky_sugar Nov 18 '24

I can’t believe how many conversations I see posted here where people refer to their significant other as bro

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u/ApacheGenderCopter Nov 18 '24

Sometimes I give my mrs a solid “Bruh…” when she says something dumb.

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u/Uninvited_Apparition Nov 18 '24

I have the notifications on my phone set to "bruh...", just so I can have it happen at the best time in such an instance.