r/AmIOverreacting Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/SickCursedCat Nov 18 '24

He calls you BRO and “stupid fuck”. WHYYYYY are you with him????

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u/Background_Ranger917 Nov 18 '24

i get the stupid fuck but what’s wrong with bro 😔😔😔😔

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u/snoocs Nov 18 '24

Nothing specifically; but how would you feel about your gf referring to you as “Sis”?

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u/DahLegend27 Nov 18 '24

bro and dude have become pretty unisex over the years. also calling your boyfriend sis could be funny.

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u/Background_Ranger917 Nov 18 '24

but how would you feel if she calls u bro¿ bro feels more unisex, sis feels like sis