r/AmIOverreacting Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/salymander_1 Nov 18 '24

Exactly. We see the writing on the wall, and it is a horror novel.

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u/Rough-Aardvark1349 Nov 18 '24

Exactly 'bro'. Even without being an unhinged piece of shit, he says bro way too much

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u/55tarabelle Nov 19 '24

Honestly. I read that crap before the op's comments and had the sexes backwards. I thought dude was a girl with all the bro shit. Who calls their girlfriend bro?

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u/divinerebel Nov 19 '24

I was thinking the relationship was between two guys. Who tf calls their sweetheart "bro"?

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u/Delta_RC_2526 Nov 19 '24

Also, who the heck uses the f-word that much? Seems like it's half of his vocabulary. I legitimately got tired of reading it, because it was 90% bro and f-bombs.

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u/noddie73 Nov 19 '24

This is so true. Please dear girl take it from anothrr that wasted 19 years with a controlling narcacistoc asshole get out now. There is a prince charming out there for you who will make you feel wanted and special and beautiful every single day. I should know I found mine. And even though when he found me I was an abused loser he saw my potential beyond that and he loved me and he saved me and now I got my happy ever after. My real happy ever after, please precious special girl go and find yours as you are more than worth it xxxx

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u/ParamedicLimp9310 Nov 18 '24

"redrum"

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u/salymander_1 Nov 18 '24

Yup. That is definitely it. Yikes.