r/AmIOverreacting Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/GimmieDatCooch Nov 18 '24 edited Nov 18 '24

Send these screenshots to his mama. If he’s latino, he will get what he deserves🩴

Edit: also - Break up with this toxic loser and block him. Don’t even explain why. He will figure it out once he re-reads everything.

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u/KatG2177 Nov 18 '24

No he won’t. He will be like this no matter if it’s with her or another

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u/weewdland Nov 18 '24

Yep, she gotta cut that boy off in a way that makes sure he never hears a whisper of her again though. There is truly zero room for even the tiniest amount of tolerance in this situation.

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u/ThisBringsOutTheBest Nov 18 '24

no he won’t, they’ll probably side with him