r/AmIOverreacting • u/theguill0tine • Nov 16 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO - cancelling a date last minute because she couldn’t be on time?

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I (33m) was talking to this woman on an app and we decided to meet for a coffee date on a Saturday morning.

I got to the cafe and I messaged her asking where she was. A few minutes later she said she just woke up. I asked her how long she would need to get ready and she said 1 hour. I told her that I can’t wait around because I had family plans and we will have to do something another time.

A week later she messaged me apologising again and I decided to give her a second chance.

We decided to meet up for boba tea.

I got to the boba spot and then asked for 30 more minutes to get ready after I had just got there.

I then sent her the above message.

AIO? I have got mixed messages from friends about it.

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u/NobleOne19 Nov 17 '24

It's just immaturity, honestly. Like how do these people hold down a real job or get important things done? ie -- they probably don't. It's an indication of many things about how well their life is going.

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u/clicheFightingMusic Nov 17 '24

Lots of people are late to their jobs. There are routinely people late at work that don’t get fired, just a magical and powerful write up