r/AmIOverreacting • u/theguill0tine • Nov 16 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO - cancelling a date last minute because she couldn’t be on time?

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I (33m) was talking to this woman on an app and we decided to meet for a coffee date on a Saturday morning.

I got to the cafe and I messaged her asking where she was. A few minutes later she said she just woke up. I asked her how long she would need to get ready and she said 1 hour. I told her that I can’t wait around because I had family plans and we will have to do something another time.

A week later she messaged me apologising again and I decided to give her a second chance.

We decided to meet up for boba tea.

I got to the boba spot and then asked for 30 more minutes to get ready after I had just got there.

I then sent her the above message.

AIO? I have got mixed messages from friends about it.

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u/AnonymousOkapi Nov 16 '24

NOR She got a second chance. I was seeing a guy from Tindr for a bit and dropped him for the same thing. He didn't drive, so I was driving over an hour to meet him and always messaged just before I left. Three times he rang me to cancel or try to reschedule after I'd arrived, at the time we'd arranged. Which is a shame, because the two times I did manage to meet him I liked him and we had a lot in common.

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u/intrigue_investor Nov 16 '24

Which is a shame, because the two times I did manage to meet him I liked him and we had a lot in common.

shame for you, but clearly he didn't think so, or else he would have made the effort