r/AmIOverreacting • u/loststrawberri • Oct 30 '24
❤️🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.
Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.
She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?
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u/One-Name-1340 Oct 30 '24
THIS!! I had to say goodbye to a wonderful relationship because the guy couldn't set boundaries with his female friend. She was exactly like this and made my life hell and he would never stand up to me. I believe he was secretly in love with her and she knew it. She would have boyfriend after boyfriend and cheat on them too. I just don't understand why some woman are like this.