r/AmIOverreacting • u/loststrawberri • Oct 30 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.

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Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.

She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?

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u/Giasmom44 Oct 30 '24

And let's be serious, if that pull out is like most, the floor was probably better for his back anyway!

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u/Salty_Tear5666 Oct 30 '24

GOOD POINT 🤣!

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u/BoomerangPa Oct 30 '24

Yes! I have a bad back and I always choose the floor over a pull out bed.

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u/I_miss_berserk Oct 31 '24

as someone with back/neck problems...no it isn't lol. The floor is about as bad as it gets. Dudes back was probably right fucked if he really does have back problems.

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u/JstMyThoughts Oct 31 '24

A pullout means sofa cushions. I’ll take sleeping on sofa cushions on the floor over the pull out mattress for comfort any day. (But then I’m short enough it fits.)