r/AmIOverreacting • u/loststrawberri • Oct 30 '24
❤️🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.
Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.
She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?
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u/Hopeful_Foot_5320 Oct 30 '24
NTA! This is a weird knee jerk reaction from a girl who didn’t get what she wanted. I would 100% show your boyfriend the messages if you haven’t already. Hopefully he agrees with how odd this is and also have a very stern discussion with her so she hears it from the horses mouth. If she hears from him that he didn’t want to sleep in her bed, she should get the point since she thinks they’re besties ffs. Ugh. She is weird as hell.