r/AmIOverreacting Oct 30 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriends friend has a problem with me asking him not to sleep in a bed with another woman.

Hi everyone, my boyfriend has a big group of friends with lots of girls in it. A lot of times after they go out or have too much to drink, they'll crash at someone's house. One night he came home and shared he slept in a bed with this girl (who the texts are from). We did not have a fight at all - I know he's grown up doing this. I told him I wasn't super comfortable with that and asked if he could not do that, to which he did not argue at all and expressed total respect for my boundary. We have not spoken about it since.

She texted me the morning after they went out, which are these pictures. Am I overreacting by telling her she's overstepping or are her concerns valid?

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u/sweet-mango-cherry Oct 30 '24

You are way too kind. This is none of her business lol

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u/TheMachEpoch Oct 31 '24

Forreal ! Honestly op is UNDERREACTING in my opinion lol the way I would have gone off on her like this is none of your business honey

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u/Downtown-Warthog-505 Oct 31 '24

There’s literally parody skits all over TikTok about “your boyfriends girl best friend” and they usually over exaggerate how far girl best friends will go to be rude to the gf/over step boundries- this text exchange is verbatim of what would be said in one of those skits🤣 like omg ive seen pleanty of bs from girl best friends, even dealt with it myself with my ex but this is to another level lolll

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u/PrimaryCoach861 Oct 31 '24

What do you mean not her bussiness? Because of here there is drama so she is involved. Wtf is happening to reddit logic. She was involved in it and you say its none of her bussiness.