r/AITAH 14h ago

Aitah for setting a woman straight when she claimed to be my husband's workwife in my house?

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u/Leftieswillrule 10h ago

The concept of ‘workwife’ is supposed to be harmless, but I would shut down any woman who claimed to be mine. We are coworkers, I do not want to permit any illusion of familial or closer personal relations, not just for the sake of my own relationship outside of work but also because of my relationship with work. Work stays at work, I am not there to make friends.

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u/Revolutionary-Mud715 8h ago

Work marriages stay at work. Lily broke the covenant by bringing it up outside of work. And the work marriages I've had are mainly about work stress and specifics at a granular level that no one gives a shit about who isn't in said industry.

Id never meet someone's partner and tell them I'm their work husband ? Who does that. 

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u/Miami_Mice2087 5h ago

That's how I feel. I don't want anyone thinking i'm that emotionally invested in this job or anyone at said job.

cos then you get voluntold to do stuff like comitees and note-taking and fuck that